Trend columnist Joanne Hegarty meets type icon Ines de la Fressange

ByLouise McGinnis

Oct 9, 2022

How a trend legend beats the blues: Trend columnist Joanne Hegarty meets type icon Ines de la Fressange

  • Ines de la Fressange is eager to emphasize she is just not Ms Excellent, Queen of Serenity 
  • She will get low moods, may be lazy and generally doesn’t need to get off the bed 
  • ‘Everybody feels this manner at instances, . I do too,’ the type icon says

Ines de la Fressange is eager to emphasize she is just not Ms Excellent, Queen of Serenity. She will get low moods, may be lazy and generally doesn’t need to get off the bed on a busy work day. ‘Everybody feels this manner at instances, . I do too,’ she says.

And but, on paper, the French former runway mannequin and face of Chanel sounds fairly darn spectacular. She now runs her personal trend and homeware model, Ines de la Fressange Paris, is an envoy for Roger Vivier and designs a vastly profitable clothes line for Uniqlo, which continues to be going sturdy after 19 seasons. Her 2010 e-book Parisian Stylish, a information to that traditional French system for dressing, bought greater than 1,000,000 copies.

Over a decade later, and now 65, she’s again hoping to recapture a few of her literary success. Her new e-book known as Happiness – The Artwork of Togetherness* and has the same dip-in, dip-out format. It’s co-written with two long-term associates, Olga Sekulic and trend journalist Sophie Gachet.

Ines de la Fressange is keen to stress she is not Ms Perfect, Queen of Serenity. She gets low moods, can be lazy and sometimes doesn’t want to get out of bed on a busy work day. ‘Everyone feels this way at times, you know. I do too,’ she says

Ines de la Fressange is eager to emphasize she is just not Ms Excellent, Queen of Serenity. She will get low moods, may be lazy and generally doesn’t need to get off the bed on a busy work day. ‘Everybody feels this manner at instances, . I do too,’ she says

It’s about how the key to happiness lies in nurturing relationships – each romantic and platonic – and is filled with insights and suggestions that De la Fressange says include age. However when the concept for the e-book was initially mentioned, she didn’t instantly prefer it.

‘I assumed there have been already too many self-help books round and that perhaps individuals would suppose the topic of happiness was pretentious. However it’s true that friendship and relationships are the most important clues to contentment, and that speaking to associates overtly will help us put issues in perspective and make our worries appear smaller.

‘So I wished to offer my recommendation on how you can get the very best out of those. Maybe the e-book may make individuals fear rather less and really feel slightly happier. In that case, it was value it.’

Not all of her life has been completely satisfied, nonetheless. The daughter of a marquis, De la Fressange married Italian businessman Luigi d’Urso, whose sudden demise from a coronary heart assault in 2006 left her the only mom of two daughters, 9 and Violette, now of their 20s.

At the moment her long-term accomplice is Denis Olivennes, who runs the French every day newspaper Libération, and she or he enjoys a robust bond along with her daughters. They train her about new writers and artists – and steal garments from her wardrobe.

Not all of her life has been happy, however. The daughter of a marquis, De la Fressange married Italian businessman Luigi d’Urso, whose sudden death from a heart attack in 2006 left her the single mother of two daughters, Nine and Violette, now in their 20s. Pictured: Ines De La Fressange and Sveva Alviti

Not all of her life has been completely satisfied, nonetheless. The daughter of a marquis, De la Fressange married Italian businessman Luigi d’Urso, whose sudden demise from a coronary heart assault in 2006 left her the only mom of two daughters, 9 and Violette, now of their 20s. Pictured: Ines De La Fressange and Sveva Alviti

‘I’m very fortunate to have a very good relationship with my daughters. They deal with my wardrobe like a store nevertheless it makes me completely satisfied that they need to put on my issues. And all of us go on holidays collectively each summer time in Provence the place I’ve a home.

‘I actually love younger individuals. I see so many ladies of my age afraid of youthful generations, however we are able to each be taught quite a bit from one another. When persons are 65, some suppose their life is over. However this actually isn’t true – you possibly can nonetheless uncover many new locations on the planet and nice issues.’

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Ines’s ten steps to contentment 

1 Inform associates how it’s Complain about an issue to a pal they usually hear; complain to your accomplice and they’ll attempt to repair it. However as ladies we regularly simply have to complain – and be listened to.

2 Give dangerous ideas the slip Push negativity out of your thoughts. Don’t say: ‘All I’ve is issues.’ As a substitute say: ‘Life is giving me thrilling challenges proper now.’

3 Cancel all guilt journeys As ladies we undergo endlessly from this emotion. Resolve that from at this time you need to be happier and be taught to have a look at life in a brand new approach.

4 Up these small acts of kindness Take care of a neighbour’s canine for some time. Inform associates you’re keen on them.

5 Be completely satisfied for others – rejoice their successes and abilities.

6 By no means really feel ashamed when issues go improper – nobody is the winner on a regular basis.

7 Reward your different half

As a substitute of criticising your accomplice, as all of us do and is damaging, discuss to them about their qualities and why you’re keen on them. Simply since you reside with them doesn’t imply they don’t want it. We are sometimes kinder to strangers.

8 Do ask for assist – properly We frequently really feel drained then begin screaming or get indignant about tiny issues reminiscent of unwashed dishes. As a substitute, ask your self: is it value getting cross about? If the reply isn’t any, discover a higher technique to say it.

9 Make that date Our work and residential life are likely to get put forward of our relationship however spending high quality time collectively is significant. So meet for lunch, go to the films – take time to deal with your relationship.

10 Maintain the joggers! We frequently gown up within the workplace however not at house. It’s unusual as a result of we’re with the individuals we love essentially the most but look our worst.

 

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